The only person I ever can control is me.
I know this. I share this with my clients. Yet, in my role as a mother, I somehow blocked this from my knowledge.
I had to come back to realizing that my children cannot give me what I need. Good or bad.
I must be responsible for creating what I need for my life. I am the one who creates my peace of mind. I am the one who decides to be calm and collected. I am the one in control of myself.
For all the positive attributes. I am the one in control.
- My thoughts
- My emotions
- My well-being
- My peace
- My confidence
- My joy
- My beliefs
- My creativity
For all my negative attributes. I am the one in control.
- My triggers
- My rage
- My frustrations
- My annoyances
- My limitations
- My struggles
- My sins
- My inability to focus
It is not what my children do that takes away from or adds to my control. It is how I choose to respond to what they do and what I make it mean in my life.
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